totally uncalled for
friend,
i don’t know exactly what you’re going through right now. but whatever it is, i’m positive you’ll be fine.
anyway, i wanna share with you some of the thoughts i tried to bear in mind when i was that lovesick puppy who was waiting for someone to take me home.
love yourself first and foremost.
…stop checking out your exes’ profiles. you don’t have to know if they’re miserable or not. you don’t have to know who the present of your past is. stop trying to discover what
they made out of their lives. focus on what you’re making out of your own.
…FORGIVE but don’t totally forget. keep the lessons learned… if there are any.
…don’t wish people who hurt you to die. that’s an easy way out. wish them to suffer ten times you did and then die and then go to hell. hehehe. seriously, don’t wish them ill. it’ll backfire on you…karmic law. our Good Lord knows what to do.
…move on. take one step each day. after a year, you’ll be happy to realize you’re 365 steps away from the pain. (is this making any sense?)
…men are not robots programmed to be happy at all circumstances. allow yourself to feel sad, cry your heart out, but don’t linger on it for so long. sadness is evil in disguise. just play with it for a while, make it feel unrecognized, and, after a while, say “hey, i know you. and there’s no way you can beat me!”
…let go. even the longest, most stable relationships can break. ours will never be an exception. if it has to go, let it go. forcing it to stay will worsen the case. you still have your whole life ahead of you. the best is yet to come.
…happiness will find you. believe. if you already do, continue believing. if you don’t, start believing. positive thinking is the key.
…smile, smile, smile. and the whole world will smile back at you.
lastly, why not try joining grace in her yoga???
though we haven’t seen each other for the longest time, i know when we meet up again it’ll feel as though we’ve never been apart at all.
you’re fondly remembered.
and you’re loved.
