musings
The records may show a poor statistics of couples not having experienced this kind of marital conflict. It happens in most relationships. And those whose relationships were downright spared from this catastrophe or those who were shaken a little but weren’t totally moved by it could be counted not just blessed but phenomenal!
There are so many sides that should be dealt with when it comes to this issue. I don’t really intend to delve into all its facets though. I don’t even know why I have to write about this.
in my own viewpoint, infidelity is always a lose-lose situation. All parties, even the unconcerned ones, get their share of defeat. It has a far-reaching effect that goes on even long after the act. It’s hard to just throw all negative reminiscence into the atmosphere for, chances are, you’ll be able to breathe them again.
Is it really hard to forgive and forget? Yes.
Can trust find its way back? I hope so.
Should there still be a place for love? Definitely.
To err is human, to forgive is divine.
No matter how much pain it has caused you, second chances should never be deprived to those people who have hurt you. The act may be deliberate… yeah, it is deliberate! It doesn’t take a genius to be aware that one’s irresponsible actions will probably wreck havoc into someone else’s life!…, but find the heart to consider loving again. Maybe not as much as you used to. but in the right time, if BOTH of you are willing to work it out, everything will just fall into place. And that wonderful relationship you’ve once had will even bloom into something more worth taking care of.
