friendship in marriage
i can say our marriage is not at all perfect. we have gone through a series of hardships and sufferings which, at one point, caused a lot of hatred in our hearts. and afraid of being hurt again, by some means, we both found ourselves holding on to all the negative feelings we harbored against each other. after a few months of living together, we came to a point where we both DID like to kill each other.
to make it simpler, our relationship wasn’t healthy THEN. i could think of many factors that might have aggravated our situation.
several trials came our way. some made us wiser and some really tested our faith in our other. but the more rewarding part is… a wonderful friendship blossomed.
i love how we became each other’s best friend and confidant.
we share a lot of things with each other. our discussions range from absurd to the most mind-stimulating topics. we could talk about anything and everything under the sun. we laugh with each other. we even cry together. we are comfortable showing our true emotions in front of each other.
we are still not perfect after all. we still commit a lot of mistakes. we are still guilty of hurting each other.
there are still many ordeals to face. having survived through many storms is not a guarantee that we will surpass everything. but our friendship will make us stronger than ever.
